It’s a decision because the simpler thing to do is back away and convince yourself that it’s not worth it, it’s going to hurt or it’s going to use up all of your time – all of which are valid reservations. It’s a judgement because you think the reward is worth it, and it’s a promise because it just is.
" To love somebody isn't just a strong feeling, it's a decision, a judgement and a promise. "
-xoxo
Ms Yuna