Loving someone secretly is no trifle matter but a very serious situation. Those who have gone through such intense phases can only understand and appreciate the graveness of the situation.
" How flippantly we all treat a secret love, like a joke, something cute, as if it's just a sweet little thing to pat. But when we are the secret lover, we hold our breath with each word they speak, we long so desperately for their touch, even just brief, we could almost bleed, we long for it so. And when, they find a lover, we feel like a shadow, longing to be seen as real, until we finally learn we have nothing more todo than to fade away from their light. "