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Confused About Love? 'Confusion' To 'No Confusion'

Love is complicated. And being confused about love is no big deal. If you’ve been struggling to find answers about love of late then worry not. The good news is that you are not the only one confused about love, alone in this confusion! The better news is that it is possible to clear up this confusion. Okay, so I understand that if you are here, reading this, you are probably in the situation right now or at least have been here before. I’m no love guru.

But I can share a few things with you that may help you deal with being confused about love.

Clear away this confusion and see the clear picture.

1. Relax

The very first thing you need to do is RELAX. It’s okay to be confused about love. When it comes to love and care quotes are a good help. Plus, I think it’s good to be confused. Love isn’t something you just jump into without a thought and the more you think and rationalize, confusion will come. Relax and don’t let the confusion get the better of you.

2. Introspect

Sit and have a chat with yourself. Spend some time with your own self, think, talk to yourself, listen to that inner voice and really reflect on what your own heart and mind is telling you; If you hear even a little of it, maybe, just maybe, you won’t be all that confused about love.

3. Discuss

Once you have had a chat with yourself, talk to your close ones. Your family and friends will always want the best for you and once you know what you want it will be easy to steer the discussion in a healthy and positive way without making you even more confused about love.

4. Go Back To The Past

If you have been in a relationship before, evaluate the good and the bad, the positives and the negatives… understand the dynamics of your previous relationship(s), and assess if you know how to come out of love, an old love, before stepping into a new one. You need to know what went wrong and why you are no longer with your ex. Also, are you completely over your previous love?

5. Expectations

What are your expectations from a love relationship? Will this special person be able to match up to your expectations? Are these expectations a greater priority than anyone? You need to answer these questions yourself, if you want to stop being confused about love.

6. Self-Worth

You need to understand your self-worth and see how it will go forward with this specific person. You need to make sure you don’t lose your identity and evaluate if this specific person will enhance you and your personality. If not, then it’s not you being confused about love, it’s you wanting a different result when it can’t happen; these depressed love quotes will cure you of that by reminding you of pain.

7. What Is Love?

Aah! Now that’s a question you need to ask yourself. What is love to you? Why do you love someone? What is it about a person that makes you fall in love with them? Does this person fit in the definition? Don’t jump to answers, really think about it… and then think some more… and more and then just once more!

It’s okay to be confused about love but don’t get irritated and frustrated because of this. Let the confusion take its own sweet time to clear up. What you are looking for is clarity and to achieve that the confusion needs to clear up completely.

Love isn’t something that can be rushed into, in fact it shouldn’t be. So be calm and chill because as they say ‘patience reaps sweet fruits of joy.’ And guess what, whatever the end result is, you’ll still be on the greener side – you’ll either end up with someone who totally deserves you and your love or be grateful to steer away from someone who could have dimmed your sparkle! Chin up… smile on… be confused and enjoy the confusion; for confusion is yet another sweet fruit of love that is cherished for years to come.


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